I Hate My Daughter's Boyfriend, Relationship Withdrawals & ADHD Live #9

This is the full video version of our LIVE Therapist's Q&A on The Virtual Couch TikTok. Catch us in our next livestream to decide where the episode goes, we'd love to talk to you! We go over all things therapy, relationship advice, Reddit reactions, meditation with ADHD, mental health, bad jokes, and more. Please have a good day!

0:00 Intro

0:40 Emotional Whiplash

3:17 Tony is a boomer

3:51 First Live Guest!

6:23 Trauma Bonds

7:42 Intermittent Reinforcement

10:45 Tony is a boomer pt 2

11:31 Abusive Relationships

13:25 Friend in Abusive Relationship

14:47 Relationship Withdrawals

17:35 Parenting & Intermittent Reinforcement

18:39 Relationship Advice

20:01 4 Pillars of a Connected Conversation

21:25 What is Stonewalling?

26:31 Don’t Like Daughter’s Boyfriend

30:51 Trauma Bonding in Relationships

34:37 Why Can’t I Focus & ADHD

38:19 Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria

39:51 People Pleasing

40:46 Lying To Your Therapist

42:10 Why You Procrastinate w/ADHD

47:23 I Don’t Like My Therapist

51:14 Quitting Vaping

55:31 Syd in College w/ Social Goals

56:44 Socially Compliant Goals

58:52 Fawning & People Pleasing

1:00:10 Secure Attachment in Childhood

1:00:44 Should I Go To Therapy?

1:01:32 Can Gaslighting Be Subconscious?

1:01:36 What Is Gaslighting?

1:02:27 Five Types of Gaslighting

1:08:58 Relationship Advice

1:09:37 Syd’s Hair Charms

1:10:32 Tips To Quit Vaping

1:13:44 Life Advice

1:14:26 I’m Being Gaslit

1:15:18 5 Rules W/ Narcissists

1:16:41 Boundary Vs. Ultimatum

1:21:13 Nobody Has Control

1:21:51 Outro

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