Ever wonder why a narcissist seems to feed off your emotional pain?
Do you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth in relationships while the other person maintains the upper hand?
Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the complexities of narcissistic relationships and emotional immaturity. We explore concepts like the false self, the one-up, one-down dynamic, and antagonistic attachment styles in depth. He uncovers how narcissistic traits manifest in relationships, causing deep emotional trauma and affecting whole families.
Learn about the destructive patterns of predation, competition, and parasitism in narcissistic behavior from the article “Understanding the Narcissists Antagonisitic Attachment Style” by Julie Hall, creator of “The Narcissist Family Files” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-narcissist-in-your-life/202107/understanding-the-narcissists-antagonistic-attachment-style
Tony shares insights on reclaiming your sense of self by recognizing these unhealthy dynamics. Special thanks to Riley Hope for her song 'Not My Job,' which serves as the show's anthem!
I hope you find this episode helpful & please have a good day!
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:43 Listener's Question on Narcissism
01:39 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior
04:15 Exploring Narcissistic Relationships
05:26 Antagonistic Attachment Style
15:23 One-Up, One-Down Dynamics
18:56 Real-Life Examples of Narcissistic Patterns
24:17 Introduction to Human Attachment
24:42 Secure vs. Antagonistic Attachment
25:55 Predatory Relationships
29:57 Narcissistic Competition
33:18 Parasitic Dynamics
33:49 Coercion and Control
40:18 The Mask of Narcissism
42:57 The Ripple Effect of Narcissistic Abuse
45:02 Empowerment and Healing
47:54 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview
